Thanks, Graham... I've been plugging on at this, got him to try (without success) tweaking the skew. By coincidence I ran into somebody else living in North France, who is also struggling with F4L.
Then I managed to track down a bit of a tech guru... He tells me there are there are two issues potentially affecting viewers in mainland Europe trying to get access to UK Sky and Freesat broadcasts.
One is that the box itself, if it's an old one, will just not cope at 12,607 Mhz. Not true of the FoxSat though.
The other sounds plausible. Older LNBs, and some still sold on the continent with big dishes [which sometimes even have two LNBs (one for each polarisation)] - will not necessarily have a high band local oscillator at 10.6Ghz, which is essential to get the F4L frequency. The Universal LNB is not necessarily what is fitted on a big dish on the continent.
In the UK, we don't have this problem, since virtually all have minidishes with universal LNBs.
It's stretching my tech understanding, but it makes sense, even though it's bad news in the sense that it needs some new kit. It also explains why someone in North France (large dish, but uncertain about the LNB) would also have problems only on high frequency transponders like F4L.
Make sense to you?